WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

Who are the Winners and Who are the Losers?How do you differentiate between them?Here's what I think:


The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.


The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.



The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make commitments they always keep;
Losers make promises they often break.

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

Now there are winners and there are losers and there are people who have not yet learned how to win.



BE A WINNER-- TAKE ACTION


Winners do what Losers don't want to do.Winners do what needs to be done whether they feel like it or not.Here are some steps you could start taking to become a winner.


1. Be a good finder.
2. Make a habit of doing it now.
3. Develop an attitude of gratitude.
4. Get into a continuous education program.
5. Build positive self-esteem.
6. Stay away from negative influences.
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.

8. Start your day with a positive.


What separates the winners from the losers is how a person reacts to each new twist of fate.Winners embrace hard work.They love the discipline of it,the trade-off they're making to win.losers on the other hand see it as a punishment.


History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed.They won because they refused to be discouraged by their defeats.

See,winners embrace hard work.Winners learn from the past and enjoy working in the present towards the future.The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can,I will,and I am.Winners are the ones who truly listen to the calling of their hearts.Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own positive expectations in advance of the event.



Being a winner is a matter of choice,you don't need to accomplish anything to be a winner,just believe and tell yourself that you are one.It is your responsibility to make your life more joyous,fulfilling and content.No one else is going to do that for you.

Remember,

Losers let it happen;

Winners make it happen!